Love woman recognizing own sex as female.
Love woman as a man although recognizing own sex as female.
Afraid of men, can give oneself to women only, and love woman.
There should be lots other but all same homosexual love.

I heard someone said,

"I don't understand Onabe (Japanese slang of Dike) people. They are just copying men."
"Lesbians are disgusting. Acting cozy between women, yuck!"

There are discriminations and disesteem among lesbians.

For some women who mentally take themselves as male, it is very natural to fall in love with women and they don't think themselves as a lesbian.
On the contrary, others who love woman as woman hate manly behaviors, or think lesbians who act like a man as just a copy of a heterosexual man.

Lesbians tend to be socially discriminated in the first place. If we start discriminate among lesbians, we'll be divided into smaller minorities.

There is no roll model for us. So we have our own way of love and way of living. But it's not a easy thing. Therefore we need to study, learn, recognize and understand others, that is to say, uplift ourselves as human beings.