Family and relatives of my husband that I married into are classical-minded and never know of the world you are in. I am just a wife and total stranger among them. I never dare to tell my husband about you. But he might know if he saw the show you appeared. Then I'll get in trouble. You are with people who understand you well but I am not. Neither is our own family. Imagine our parents see the TV show together with their long-time associates who know you. They should be embarrassed. I am worried if my family-in-law sees the show so much that I'm having a pain in my stomach. Please keep in mind that there are only a few people who understand homosexuality. Please think about me being apart from my house and hanging on as a wife and a mother.

Please don't appear on media like that and stay with people who accept you. People around you will encourage you but there are others. I am your sister but I am wife who entered into the family-in-law. Please don't forget.

And please don't tell my kids till they grew up (till about 30). As a general mother, I would like to have some grandchildren. I don't want them have information unless they request. I'm not going to make objections in how they live their life after they grew up. But I think the information is not necessary for them right now. Would you understand what I want to say?

We are living different life. I want to get along with you the rest of my life because you are my sister. That's why I wrote this letter.

PS
Please write me back and tell me how you felt about this letter, about what I think. I want to know whether I am wrong or not. Please write me soon.